News reading 21- Miscarriages from my thought should mainly be mourned from the mother and father/partner of the woman that miscarried. Yes, I understand others close to the family should be able to mourn too, but in that point in time the ones that actually personally lost the baby(mother and father/partner) would be in the most grief at that point and would probably want to be around those they loved and be able to count on them to help them through what they lost. Losing a baby is hard on everyone that was close to the parents and had love for the child lost, I understand grief from all of those people but the mother that was holding the child and then one second loses it would be in so much pain. It would feel like a part of her had just been torn off of her and never to be seen again. The mother would feel like it was her fault, like she did something wrong and didn't know how to handle that. It's harder on the parents of the child because they feel responsible and no longer get to even see what life they were about to bring into the world. Others around them are able to grieve, but not around the parents. They'd need to be the ones that are counted on to help them through everything, not break down with them. I know from experience, that if your not the parents of the baby lost, then you need to keep it together and help through what you can until they are capable to feel okay again. In my opinion, I always just felt as though someone was overstepping if they started to take what happened more to heart then the mother did. It's hard to explain but overall I personally feel like the parents should mourn more of the miscarriage more than anything.